My brother suggested a tattoo. It's a nice idea because it reflects the permanence of the father-son relationship, but I eventually decided tattoos aren't me.
There are pendants specially made to hold a tiny amount of remains of the beloved. I really wanted one, but gave up after looking at thousands of them and not finding one that said "Tommy" to me. I also found it disturbing to think that a cargo so precious could be lost if the chain broke.
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I nearly bought a photo engraved pendant, but again couldn't find something that really grabbed me.
After months of searching, I started getting frustrated. Milka helped me out and suggested a ring on a chain. I loved the idea because I wanted something I could keep close, something personalizable, but also replaceable if lost. Of course, I spent another few weeks choosing exactly the right materials for the ring and the chain!
I just got it a few weeks ago and love it. It says Tommy & Papai ("Tommy & Daddy)" and has the inscription Fofo, te amo muito. -Papai ("Sweetheart, I love you very much -Daddy").
