The Keepsake

From the beginning, I've wanted a keepsake to remind me of Tommy.  Something that I'd have with me all the time.

My brother suggested a tattoo.  It's a nice idea because it reflects the permanence of the father-son relationship, but I eventually decided tattoos aren't me.

There are pendants specially made to hold a tiny amount of remains of the beloved.  I really wanted one, but gave up after looking at thousands of them and not finding one that said "Tommy" to me.  I also found it disturbing to think that a cargo so precious could be lost if the chain broke.  

Troy's Keepsake

I nearly bought a photo engraved pendant, but again couldn't find something that really grabbed me.

After months of searching, I started getting frustrated.  Milka helped me out and suggested a ring on a chain.   I loved the idea because I wanted something I could keep close, something personalizable, but also replaceable if lost.  Of course, I spent another few weeks choosing exactly the right materials for the ring and the chain!  

I just got it a few weeks ago and love it.  It says Tommy & Papai ("Tommy & Daddy)" and has the inscription Fofo, te amo muito. -Papai ("Sweetheart, I love you very much -Daddy").